Adoptees face a long list of questions as they grow up, not only who their parents were and why they were put up for adoption in the first place, but who they would have been had they not.
Nelson DeWitt, born in El Salvador, adopted in Honduras and raised in the United States, has gotten more answers than he bargained for. DeWitt, who is making a documentary about his experience, learned that he is one of the hundreds of now-adult children who went missing during the civil war in El Salvador, which lasted from 1980 to 1992.
Many of these children wound up adopted after they were torn away from their families by soldiers, who sometimes kept them, other times funneled them into the lucrative adoption industry. DeWitt, who was raised by his adoptive parents in the Boston area, learned that he was one of these children after receiving a phone call from a long-lost family member. He learned that his birth parents were both revolutionary operatives in El Salvador. After his mother found herself hunted for by authorities, she fled with him to Honduras. She was likely killed soon afterward; by age two, he had been adopted out of a Honduran orphanage, en route to the U.S.
A wartime adoptee’s search for the ‘missing child’ he became
October 29, 2011 by sume
Wow, that was a horrendous story. Nelson’s parents were so tragically killed so young. But God certainly tried to compensate him, putting him into a loving family, growing up so smart and well-adjusted, and then having his biological family find him after fourteen years!
Nelson’s story must be the best war-orphan or adoptee story ever. Because there must be tens of thousands of war-orphans spread around our war-torn planet who are left in the trash heap or who, though taken in by good families, are haunted all their lives by unsolved identities.
I am very touched by Nelson’s story and hope that many others like him will find peace in their lives.